Wow, I just found this thread and emailed you prematurely about the christmas cards. I am deeply sorry for your loss and the grief your mom went through trying to get help. I lost my dad shortly after he gave me my first radio in '83. Thought the world would end but we persevered. I then lost my mom exactly two years ago. It does get better with time, but I do find myself at a loss from time to time. I wish you peace within and the knowledge he is enjoying the beats of the 80's somewhere in a happier place.
-Simon