tmlfan said:of course there are 2 sides to every story.
The part that is important is that i saw the listing..it was for $50. i sent a message to the seller asking if they could meet me in Ottawa to buy it. she replied not right away she is 45 min out of ottawa. So I said i will offer $100 to come pick it up now.. right after that i sent vintageman a message saying another good box popped up on kijiji ..told him I offered $100 ..which is above the asking price to hopefully secure it.. this was all before 7AM
he told me he didnt see it..I sent him the link...
of course at this time i am interested in the box..having offered twice the asking price offering to pick it up right away
He asked me if I would grab it for him... which I said I am waiting for the seller to get back to me on the offer and pick up.
Next he went ahead and offered $200 ..without telling he was going to or asking if it was cool with me.. since he doesnt know about it without my help anyways. at the time I didnt say anything..but the more I thought about it..why would he do that? if he thought we were cool?
what are my options at this point? to start a bidding war with him? I was willing to go higher for it of course
the rest is accurate.. i did say I would then pick it up and deliver it to him
If i am way off base in thinking its not cool for him to jump in and take if out from under me.. then i will honor the deal and give it to him
My last message I asked t his question to vintageman
The part that bothers me is why would you offer more when I told you I contacted her and was waiting for a response?
i was hoping for an answer to that question
blu_fuz said:This is why I have my car enthusiast buddies pick up any scores that I can't.
We are all trying to catch the same fish, but there are only 1,2,3, maybe 4 boombox people I would ask to help me get a boombox score. It's like telling all your fishing friends where the hot spot is and they clean it out when you are gone then invite you over to try a bite or tell you to f'off because they are his fish now.
Sorry to hear a boombox is coming between both of you. Good luck.
tmlfan said:oh 1 other thing that irked me was I read later on that he was posting in another members thread who was selling a 7979 also..bragging about the score for $50 Before it was even bought.
tmlfan said:thats fair
its really not in my character to do something like that..and yes its bothering me
when i sent him the link..i did not think he would try to grab it out from me since I was local...or I wouldn't have sent it
once he told me he sent the offer (and I realized why she stopped replying to me) I asked what his highest offer was because I wanted to tell her I would pick it up for 200 .. but just dropped it at that point and said I would get it for him
Vintage Man said:of course there are 2 sides to every story.
The part that is important is that i saw the listing..it was for $50. i sent a message to the seller asking if they could meet me in Ottawa to buy it. she replied not right away she is 45 min out of ottawa. So I said i will offer $100 to come pick it up now.. right after that i sent vintageman a message saying another good box popped up on kijiji ..told him I offered $100 ..which is above the asking price to hopefully secure it.. this was all before 7AM
he told me he didnt see it..I sent him the link...
of course at this time i am interested in the box..having offered twice the asking price offering to pick it up right away
He asked me if I would grab it for him... which I said I am waiting for the seller to get back to me on the offer and pick up.
Next he went ahead and offered $200 ..without telling he was going to or asking if it was cool with me.. since he doesnt know about it without my help anyways. at the time I didnt say anything..but the more I thought about it..why would he do that? if he thought we were cool?
what are my options at this point? to start a bidding war with him? I was willing to go higher for it of course
the rest is accurate.. i did say I would then pick it up and deliver it to him
If i am way off base in thinking its not cool for him to jump in and take if out from under me.. then i will honor the deal and give it to him
My last message I asked t his question to vintageman
The part that bothers me is why would you offer more when I told you I contacted her and was waiting for a response?
i was hoping for an answer to that question
Vintage Man said:of course there are 2 sides to every story.
The part that is important is that i saw the listing..it was for $50. i sent a message to the seller asking if they could meet me in Ottawa to buy it. she replied not right away she is 45 min out of ottawa. So I said i will offer $100 to come pick it up now.. right after that i sent vintageman a message saying another good box popped up on kijiji ..told him I offered $100 ..which is above the asking price to hopefully secure it.. this was all before 7AM
he told me he didnt see it..I sent him the link...
of course at this time i am interested in the box..having offered twice the asking price offering to pick it up right away
He asked me if I would grab it for him... which I said I am waiting for the seller to get back to me on the offer and pick up.
Next he went ahead and offered $200 ..without telling he was going to or asking if it was cool with me.. since he doesnt know about it without my help anyways. at the time I didnt say anything..but the more I thought about it..why would he do that? if he thought we were cool?
what are my options at this point? to start a bidding war with him? I was willing to go higher for it of course
the rest is accurate.. i did say I would then pick it up and deliver it to him
If i am way off base in thinking its not cool for him to jump in and take if out from under me.. then i will honor the deal and give it to him
My last message I asked t his question to vintageman
The part that bothers me is why would you offer more when I told you I contacted her and was waiting for a response?
i was hoping for an answer to that question
Vintage Man said:of course there are 2 sides to every story.
The part that is important is that i saw the listing..it was for $50. i sent a message to the seller asking if they could meet me in Ottawa to buy it. she replied not right away she is 45 min out of ottawa. So I said i will offer $100 to come pick it up now.. right after that i sent vintageman a message saying another good box popped up on kijiji ..told him I offered $100 ..which is above the asking price to hopefully secure it.. this was all before 7AM
he told me he didnt see it..I sent him the link...
of course at this time i am interested in the box..having offered twice the asking price offering to pick it up right away
He asked me if I would grab it for him... which I said I am waiting for the seller to get back to me on the offer and pick up.
Next he went ahead and offered $200 ..without telling he was going to or asking if it was cool with me.. since he doesnt know about it without my help anyways. at the time I didnt say anything..but the more I thought about it..why would he do that? if he thought we were cool?
what are my options at this point? to start a bidding war with him? I was willing to go higher for it of course
the rest is accurate.. i did say I would then pick it up and deliver it to him
If i am way off base in thinking its not cool for him to jump in and take if out from under me.. then i will honor the deal and give it to him
My last message I asked t his question to vintageman
The part that bothers me is why would you offer more when I told you I contacted her and was waiting for a response?
i was hoping for an answer to that question