I think its time for me to lick my eyebrows and go home!!Women are like fish, the bigger the worm the more apt they are to bite.
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Don't want to sound too parenty... but, remember, this is a girl you're attracted to strictly on the basis of looks. You have no idea if the two of you would get along, even if she did respond to your advances. If it turns out that you can't get her to give you the time of day, assume it's for the best. I know it's exciting to snag a real hottie, but, long-term, it's much more satisfying to hook up with someone because you never seem to run out of things to say to each other or do together.
Boom Shaka Laka said:
It's easy to get caught up in the looks but that generally won't get you past a few dates and ??????. For some that's enough, depends on you and what you are looking for.
Who needs quality when you've got that kind of quantity?Fatdog said:
(Just kidding... I think.)
I know her personality, she is a very nice girl and she treats everyone the same, she is involved in extracurricular activities and will always voice her opinions no matter what others say 
and I love that about her as well, the looks just lured me in.
You all have given me some great advice, and now I'm going to wait for the oppurtunity to get it out there,right now all I can do is just take solice in washing my car every---single--day
I worry that It'll get rust because I wash it so much
and I love that about her as well, the looks just lured me in. You all have given me some great advice, and now I'm going to wait for the oppurtunity to get it out there,right now all I can do is just take solice in washing my car every---single--day
I worry that It'll get rust because I wash it so much
Don't force it and look desperate and check your car for rust development frequently.TRC-911 said:now I'm going to wait for the oppurtunity to get it out there,right now all I can do is just take solice in washing my car every---single--day
you know if a chick is to uptight to add you to her social networking page, i wouldnt loose any sleep over it.
i mean not adding someone to facebook or a myspace page if you know them on some level is pretty ignorant in my book.
as for not having the guts to ask her out,man i can promise you this even if she laughs in your face you will look back at in twenty years and regret not doing it.
seriously tho even if she rips out your heart and stomps on it,it is way way way way better to step up and at least try.
she cant hurt you man only your own ego cant hurt you. this is a big planet man and there are billions and billions of women on it.
you need to take chances sometimes even if it means you come off with a few bruises to your ego its worth it.
i mean what is the worst that could happen.
she might never talk to you again,but from the sounds of it she isnt talking to you now so in my view you have nothing to loose.
lifes to short not to at least try.
i mean not adding someone to facebook or a myspace page if you know them on some level is pretty ignorant in my book.
as for not having the guts to ask her out,man i can promise you this even if she laughs in your face you will look back at in twenty years and regret not doing it.
seriously tho even if she rips out your heart and stomps on it,it is way way way way better to step up and at least try.
she cant hurt you man only your own ego cant hurt you. this is a big planet man and there are billions and billions of women on it.
you need to take chances sometimes even if it means you come off with a few bruises to your ego its worth it.
i mean what is the worst that could happen.
she might never talk to you again,but from the sounds of it she isnt talking to you now so in my view you have nothing to loose.
lifes to short not to at least try.
Just ask her out already... or somebody else will. Grow a pair.... 
Try this when you "run into" her sometime. Get a conversation started about something that she seems interested in. Pay attention to her, look her in the eyes when she talks, don't forget to smile, and part way through the conversation tell her that you really hate to, but you have to go. (Don't wait until everything has been said and you are kicking the dirt with nothing left to say) Then say something like this---- " Hey, I really enjoyed talking to you. You know we see each other around, but I was thinking it would be nice to get to know each other a little better. I was thinking maybe we could catch a movie or have lunch sometime. How does that sound?" What is she going to say? It sounds bad? Be prepared to offer a couple different times when you are "available" and ask her what would work best for her. It will work better if you can have at least some idea of what her schedule is. Work/school, nights/weekends. That is without turning into a stalker.
The non-desperate part is you are cutting a conversation off before it ends. You are a busy guy... you have places to go, things to do. You are interested in her, but you are not going to follow her home, waiting until she almost has the door closed before you ask her out.
Try it....
Try this when you "run into" her sometime. Get a conversation started about something that she seems interested in. Pay attention to her, look her in the eyes when she talks, don't forget to smile, and part way through the conversation tell her that you really hate to, but you have to go. (Don't wait until everything has been said and you are kicking the dirt with nothing left to say) Then say something like this---- " Hey, I really enjoyed talking to you. You know we see each other around, but I was thinking it would be nice to get to know each other a little better. I was thinking maybe we could catch a movie or have lunch sometime. How does that sound?" What is she going to say? It sounds bad? Be prepared to offer a couple different times when you are "available" and ask her what would work best for her. It will work better if you can have at least some idea of what her schedule is. Work/school, nights/weekends. That is without turning into a stalker.
The non-desperate part is you are cutting a conversation off before it ends. You are a busy guy... you have places to go, things to do. You are interested in her, but you are not going to follow her home, waiting until she almost has the door closed before you ask her out.
Try it....
i agree with all the advisors here --
who advise that you just MUST TRY---
beautiful girls get starred at 400 times a day --
every day of their lives --
even from back when they were little beautiful kids--
but -- they might find that only ONE in a thousand of those who stare and wish-
have the nerve to ask them out
who advise that you just MUST TRY---
beautiful girls get starred at 400 times a day --
every day of their lives --
even from back when they were little beautiful kids--
but -- they might find that only ONE in a thousand of those who stare and wish-
have the nerve to ask them out
yeap you need to put all fears away and let me tell you some girls never say anything yet she feels the same way but if you dont try you will not know you are not in a rush take your time ask her out for some ice-cream or something and just talk just treat her as your best friend once you get to know her then you can decide.....
Aaahh. How I miss those younger years of courtship. The heart palpations, the sweaty palms, the queasy stomache and the stuttering voice.... enjoy it while you can.
call her a hooker for wearing those fishnets. seriously. she'll get pissed at you but at least you'll get talking. then you can make it up to her.
That makes a BUNCH of us Bobby!Fatdog said:Damn! I married the wrong woman then.71spud said:Yup. Once you are married you will never have to beg for it again.
oldskool69 said:That makes a BUNCH of us Bobby!Fatdog said:Damn! I married the wrong woman then.71spud said:Yup. Once you are married you will never have to beg for it again.
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