Girls :P

How many of us here deal with girls all the time but only have their eyes set on one but know they are in over their head, like me :judge:

I have known this one girl who I'll just call kim for a little over 2 years now. we 'met' in class and she was smoking hot, I mean the black clothes, fishnets, and the high rise boots had me sweating up in my hoodie and jeans She lives up my street and we have had small talk here and there but when I tried getting her to add me on myspace she didn't respond, adn my sent folder has nothing in it and my friends request has no pending ones although I sent it yesterday Anyhow, I just feel low because if I do say so myself I am a good catch, I'm handsome and in shape plus I drive 2 super cool cars, even have a job what more could she want from me sorry for the rant just needed to vent

forgot to mention I was working on my car when she was walking her dog and showing off her 'assets' Temptress perhaps?

FIRST OF ALL DONT BLAME YOUR SELF.GIRLS ARE LIKE THIS- IF THEY WANT YOU IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT YOU HAVE,DRIVE OR HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE.EVEN A UGLY DUDE CAN GET A HOT CHICK,SO LOOKS DONT MATTER SO MUCH.ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS PLAY WITH THERE MIND-KEEP THEM THINKING-PLAY YOUR GAME NOT THERES-RIGHT NOW YOUR PLAYING HER GAME-SORRY IM NOT TRYING TO DISS YOU IN ANY WAY-IT HAPPENS TO ALL OF US GUYS.she sounds hot but hard to get.heres some advice that should work for you-next time you see her act like you dont see her.she sounds like the type that gets alot of attention as it is-so why give her more-right.the more you egnore her the more likely she will come after you.DONT BE RUDE JUST UNAWARE SHES THERE-KINDA HOW SHES DOING YOU.to just some things up-its sinmple just kinda do the oppisite that you would like to do.just my thoughts-i could be wrong but why not try it out and see what happens.gb4l.

if you saw her you wouldn't have time to think of how to act
I will give this a shot, maybe I can fill up my truck one day when she's at the pump. She also has a TWIN that dresses just like her But I like this one only

HEY BRO KEEP ME POSTED-I FIND THIS STUFF INTERESTING.IM MARRIED AND I CANT PLAY NO MORE,AND I LOVE THE WHOLE CAT AND DOG SHOW.GB4L.

Find out her favourite song(s) then next time you're working on your car and she walks by it'll just 'happen' to be playing on your flashiest coolest looking boombox........... just for background music while you work

But yeah, gave up trying to understand women long long ago, sometimes think the whole relationship thing is just one big fat waste of time and effort - till another one comes along then everything's peachy in the world again

I just don't know why but I think women bring meaning to life They bring us into the world, nurture us and take what we throw at them. I don't know if it's like this for everyone but when she talks to me I kind of slow down, and get this tired feeling but aware feeling at the same time I just want to be there because it feels calm I guess, like being in your room after it's cleaned but with somebody you really really trust. I know it sounds weird. Can't fight what you feel though.

The last several times I have had girlfiriends, every single one of them was a blonde named Laura or Lauren 4 times in a row in two different states. moving killed the deals

HAVE YOU EVER JUST ASK HER OUT?

GHETTOBLASTER4LIFE said:

HAVE YOU EVER JUST ASK HER OUT?

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Don't have the balls to to be honest

ITS OK MAN-I UNDERSTAND-IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAVE IT BAD FOR THIS GIRL.I KNOW ITS HARD BUT YOU MUST ASK HER OUT.ONE DAY SHE MIGHT END UP WITH SOME JERK AND YOU LL BE KICKING YOUR SELF FOR NEVER KNOWING IF SHE WOULD HAVE SAID YES OR NO.

I can't really commit right now though with my job and all my expenses (monte) but it is just knowing the one person I notice, notices me as well

SHE MIGHT BE INTERESTED IN YOU MORE THAN YOU THINK.-SHE MAY HAVE REASONS YOUR UNAWARE OF,THERE COULD BE A NUMBER OF THINGS OR REASONS FOR HER ACTIONS.I WISH YOU LUCK-I GOT TO GO TO BED NOW BEFORE THE WIFEY COMES AFTER ME.LOL,GB4L.

GHETTOBLASTER4LIFE said:

SHE MIGHT BE INTERESTED IN YOU MORE THAN YOU THINK.-SHE MAY HAVE REASONS YOUR UNAWARE OF,THERE COULD BE A NUMBER OF THINGS OR REASONS FOR HER ACTIONS.I WISH YOU LUCK-I GOT TO GO TO BED NOW BEFORE THE WIFEY COMES AFTER ME.LOL,GB4L.

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cool, thanks for the advice

imp: :judge:

try not to be too needy looking,
you have a better chance with her if you ignore her rather than hitting on her.
women are generally only interested in men that can take them or leave them,
be confident and try not to pursue Her just let it happen .I have three Daughters all of them could care less if their boyfriends have money,car or anything ,they like Bad Boy's

turbomustang84 said:

try not to be too needy looking,
you have a better chance with her if you ignore her rather than hitting on her.
women are generally only interested in men that can take them or leave them,
be confident and try not to pursue Her just let it happen .I have three Daughters all of them could care less if their boyfriends have money,car or anything ,they like Bad Boy's

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Don't be mean or hateful about it, but just be indifferent and treat them like yesterday's news and all of a sudden they'll be like, "Who the hell does he think he is?! I ain't havin' this!! Man, he's so hot!"

You might be laughing, but it really does work. Hell, I used that method and scored a hot babe. Been married to her for over 12 years now.

women are like fish ,even if the bait is perfect you still have to hope they are hungry enough to take it.

Fatdog said:

just be indifferent and treat them like yesterday's news and all of a sudden they'll be like, "Who the hell does he think he is?! I ain't havin' this!! Man, he's so hot!"
You might be laughing, but it really does work. Hell, I used that method and scored a hot babe. Been married to her for over 12 years now.

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Good point, women lap up attention and if she doesn't get yours she might be inclined to give positive 'signals' to get it.
If you make yourself seem out of her league it may spur her on to make some effort herself.

Good luck whatever....

Your playing in the fire my friend but it's to much fun to worry about getting burned. You've had plenty of good advice already but you do need to ask her out, you should do it casually in a conversation. Of course that requires that you have a conversation with her every now and then but it works, it's best if you develop a bit of a comfort zone with the friendship.

Good luck TRC and keep us posted.

JVC Floyd said:

women are like fish ,even if the bait is perfect you still have to hope they are hungry enough to take it.

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Women are like fish, the bigger the worm the more apt they are to bite.